Expanded x Ep. 341 - How People Pleasing is Blocking Your Abundance - The Process with Maddy
Ease, authenticity, and success can coexist.
This work is transformational. And in the midst of a tough season full of tests and triggers, expansion is more important than ever. It’s vital to see that change, healing, and transformation is possible, and that’s what today’s guest brings us. Jessica sits down with Maddy, a TBMer who shares her powerful journey of overcoming burnout, perfectionism, and people-pleasing. From navigating $100k of debt in her business and saying yes to people and ideas that weren’t in alignment with her to manifesting $100k launch weekends and full alignment with her business. Maddy unpacks the small but profound shifts that led her to manifest her dream life—one of ease, alignment, authenticity, and beautiful abundance. Together, they discuss the importance of listening to your inner compass, breaking free from external validation, and doing the self-worth work that changes everything. And incredibly, Maddy has a real-time breakthrough on some of these programmed beliefs that led her down the wrong path. It’s a testament that we hold so much power within us, that our true selves are inherently worthy, and that with a little bravery and patience we can uncover and embrace our authentic selves–and manifest so much along the way. If you’ve been stuck in overdrive, unsure of how to shift, this episode is your permission slip to slow down, tune in, and start taking aligned action.
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In This Episode We Talk About:
Overcoming burnout and chronic anxiety through self-worth work
Releasing perfectionism and people-pleasing to live more authentically
The importance of listening to your gut instincts in business and life
How small, incremental shifts lead to massive life transformations
The role of subconscious programming in manifestation and success
Setting boundaries and reclaiming personal power in work and relationships
Shifting from external validation to internal alignment
The surprising link between healing emotional wounds and physical health
Reframing luxury and abundance to match your authentic self
Understanding the deeper motivations behind your manifestations
Navigating career shifts with authenticity and self-trust
How to integrate manifestation work into a busy lifestyle
The power of worst-case scenario journaling for making bold moves
Using visualization and identity work to step into your higher self
Creating a sustainable and fulfilling life on your own terms
THEMES / TIME STAMPS:
Maddy shares how she unknowingly built a life based on external validation and ended up at a low point in many areas of her life (00:09:20)
Maddy explains how tiny, intentional shifts over time led to massive transformation in her mindset, health, and business. (00:17:10)
Maddy’s real-time breakthrough on identifying a root belief that has impacted her life (00:52:43)
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